A guest post for all the people who listen to the haters: don’t listen! And sometimes it’s just life. 31: Drive by Shaming — Love Letters to a Healing Heart

Every time I hear one person tell another some variation of, “Staying in your partnership and trying to transform the conflict means you’re weak, a chump, abused, suffering from Stockholm syndrome, and your past history was just one big lie,” I think, “Wow! Who’s gaslighting who here?!” Seriously?! How do you know?

via 31: Drive by Shaming — Love Letters to a Healing Heart

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One comment

  1. Wow. This was a nice surprise.

    Thank you RosieJo for sharing a piece of my story.

    4a while the haters got in my head. Periodically they still do.

    I say “haters” but not all of them r *consciously* malicious.

    Most r just ppl2frightened2confront w/their own shit & blame shift back2those that cheated than take responsibility4their own emotional well-being.

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