Every time I hear one person tell another some variation of, “Staying in your partnership and trying to transform the conflict means you’re weak, a chump, abused, suffering from Stockholm syndrome, and your past history was just one big lie,” I think, “Wow! Who’s gaslighting who here?!” Seriously?! How do you know?
Wow. This was a nice surprise.
Thank you RosieJo for sharing a piece of my story.
4a while the haters got in my head. Periodically they still do.
I say “haters” but not all of them r *consciously* malicious.
Most r just ppl2frightened2confront w/their own shit & blame shift back2those that cheated than take responsibility4their own emotional well-being.
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