I shared this guest post today, madly to my other blog moisfrenchadventure.com! It has still been read there because it is a wonderfully written perspective from the other side of he affair (I refuse to use the word cheater!) I would urge you all to read it: Rich came into the same category as the writer and it made me stop and realise that actually where some things are concerned I now realise he was telling me the truth!
I read this to Rich today and told him how it made me feel; and he smiled with tears in his eyes – 11, nearly 12, years later.
I urge you to read this blog, the writer is happy for me to share as in his words ‘long as it helps somebody.’
https://affairwithcoffee.wordpress.com/2019/01/15/response-to-comment/
Moisy